Articles by: Brad

Does Asking a Woman Out Quickly in Online Dating Work?

Published on October 23, 2014

I’m a big fan of getting to the first date quickly in online dating. I wrote about this in detail in my article on planning the first date. I didn’t realize this when I started my website, but it turns out that lots of people giving online dating advice hold this opinion too. Personally, I […]

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How Do I Approach a Woman I See Every Day But Don’t Know?

Published on October 19, 2014

For me, online dating was a godsend: I always had trouble approaching women in day-to-day life. For example, if I’m remembering correctly, I only got two phone numbers at a bar in my life prior to online dating (and one of those only applies if Applebee’s counts as a bar). It was always something I […]

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September 2014: Save 50% at eHarmony

Published on September 25, 2014

eHarmony is offering a new promotion where you can get 50% off of the 6-month subscription. To take advantage of this, enter the promo code GET50OFF when signing up for the six month subscription. For many of us new to online dating, six months may sound like a long commitment. However, with a promotion like […]

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Online Dating Scams are More than Requests for Money

Online Dating Scams are More than Requests for Money

Published on September 23, 2014

Online dating scams are something that are happening all the time. I would say that most weeks I receive emails from someone who is dealing with a scam, sadly it’s often after they’ve already sent money to the scammer. In the past when I wrote on identifying online dating scammers, I often concentrated on the […]

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3 Mistakes a Guy Should Avoid in His Online Dating Profile

Published on September 17, 2014

There are many areas of things you should avoid in your dating profile. One thing I really try to push people to do is to stay positive, but unfortunately many of us guys can wander into some negativity when we write our profile. And, in addition to staying positive, we want to be interesting! Today […]

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August 2014: eHarmony Free Communication Weekend

Published on August 15, 2014

This weekend, from August 15th to the 18th, eHarmony users can communicate with their matches absolutely free. The free communication weekend starts at the beginning of the day on the 15th and goes until the end of the day on the 18th. While it is most often referred to as a “Free Weekend”, it’s actually […]

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Australia: eHarmony Free Weekend August 1 to 5, 2014

Published on July 30, 2014

eHarmony is having a free communication weekend for those living in Australia beginning this Friday, August 1st, and running until the end of the day on Tuesday, August 5th. While I’ve talked quite a bit about eHarmony’s free weekends in the US and Canada, this is the first time I’m hearing about a free event […]

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Single with a Long Weekend?

Published on May 23, 2014

Are you headed into a long weekend but single and not sure what to do? Do you not have any plans? If you’re looking for something new to try, eHarmony might be worth looking into…and not just for this long weekend either. If you’re not familiar with them, eHarmony is an online dating service that […]

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Your Online Dating Preferences Don’t Matter to Me

Published on May 3, 2014

If you’ve dated online for any amount of time you’ve probably experienced this situation: you find a nearly perfect profile and you’re so excited to contact the person and then notice that they have a requirement that you don’t meet. Do you contact or not? Generally, I feel like those doing the contacting (often men) […]

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New Relationship: Should I Hide or Delete My Dating Profile

Published on January 27, 2014

If you are asking this question, congratulations! I hope you’ve found what will be a wonderful relationship. That said, you may be at a point so early in this new relationship that you aren’t sure what you should do about your profile. Should you take it down? Or is it better to delete your profile? […]

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Is Online Dating Harder for Women?

Published on January 20, 2014

This last week there was a lot of attention given to a man who posed as a woman on a free online dating site because he thought it would be easy…and he gave up two hours later. You can check out his thoughts on the experience over at reddit. The man who tried this walked […]

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January 2014: eHarmony Free Communication Weekend

Published on January 16, 2014

eHarmony is having another free communication weekend, this time running from January 16th to January 19th, 2014. As has been the case frequently in recent months, this free communication “weekend” at eHarmony is actually more than a weekend with four days being provided for free. If you’re not familiar with the free weekends at eHarmony, […]

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