Articles by: Brad

Ideas for Safer Online Dating

Published on November 14, 2007

A reader contacted me this week with some thoughts on my recent article regarding risks with online dating: Your post on October 29th titled the Risk of Trusting was a great reminder of how important it is to be cautious. I appreciated your willingness to point out that there is plenty of room for failure […]

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Online Dating Services with a Different Approach

Published on November 9, 2007

Recently I was reading a TechCrunch article about the online dating services that are taking a different approach. There were two dating sites listed in the article that I was familiar with: Engage.com and GreatBoyFriends.com. I had read about Engage.com a few weeks ago and was interested by the idea. The service provides what might […]

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Online Dating and MySpace

Published on November 4, 2007

Are people really having success finding love with MySpace? I’m not talking about a purely physical relationships. Based photos I’ve seen, the site is obviously a self-advertising platform for some people. What I am talking about is actual success finding good relationships. I find myself asking this because many sites I have found in my […]

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Five Online Daters to Avoid

Published on November 2, 2007

I really loved this article on online daters to avoid. I only wish I would have read it before I had started online dating. Give this a read: I really believe it can help people avoid making some mistakes. I just cannot say enough good things about this article because I experienced so much of […]

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Is [Blank] a Good Topic for a First Date Conversations?

Published on November 1, 2007

A few searches have come to the site questioning whether certain topics are good or not for a first date conversation. The most recent one that comes to mind is “Is profession a good topic for first dates?” In general, I think most topics are fine for first date conversations. Even topics such as politics […]

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A Great Idea for Online Dating

Published on October 31, 2007

In my guide, I stress the importance of meeting anyone you are talking to online sooner rather than later. I make this recommendation based on the fact that I found my impressions that were created from talking to someone through email or on the phone were often very (very) wrong. In these cases, within the […]

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On the Fence about Online Dating

Published on October 30, 2007

If you are one of the many singles out there who has considered online dating but just can’t bring yourself to shell out the cash to give it a try the web site Plenty of Fish might just be what you were looking for. When I was dating online, there were a few free sites […]

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The Risk of Trusting Quickly

Published on October 29, 2007

While online dating is bringing more and more people dating success everyday, there is another reminder in the news that caution should be exercised. In this story, an Australian man flew to Mali to meet his “bride” only to be taken hostage. While this is horrible, it seems the man from the article isn’t the […]

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Internet Dating: Profile Views vs. Actual Interest

Published on October 25, 2007

Once again I am using Google searches that send people to my site for article ideas. This time the search that sent someone my way was: “If a guy views your online profile often are they interested?” The Short Answer Wink at him and find out. It may not be called “winking” in the service […]

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Online Dating: What Your Emails Should NOT Look Like

Published on October 23, 2007

I briefly described what I thought a good email looks like in my online dating guide. Basically, my opinion is keep things short and simple while proving you actually read the profile. Today, I found a site called I Liked Your Profile that is a collection of weird, scary or just out-right funny emails people […]

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Worth A Thousand Words? How about $150?

Published on October 22, 2007

Recently, when a friend needed photos for his online dating profile, it was a good opportunity for my wife (who is a professional photographer) to get some portrait shots while helping a friend at the same time. The shoot went well and our friend genuinely liked the photos and had them up on his profile […]

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Online Dating from a Woman’s Perspective

Published on October 19, 2007

I am always hesitant to give women advice for online dating. Primarily, this is based on conversations I had with dates during my internet dating days. One great conversation starter was to simply talk about the online experience itself. These conversations revealed how very different a woman’s experiences were from mine, although many were similar […]

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